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Custody and School Schedules: How a Parenting Plan Can Make Co-Parenting Easier

Parenting Plan - Attorney Seattle, WA

At View Ridge Family Law and Estate Planning, we understand that divorce can be a stressful time for everyone involved, especially children. One of the biggest challenges for divorced parents is creating a custody arrangement or parenting plan that works for both parents and their children, particularly when factoring in school schedules and extracurricular activities.


Utilizing a Parenting Plan to Avoid Conflict


Parenting Plan Basics:

When you and your ex don’t see eye-to-eye on a custody issue, it can be frustrating to reach an agreement. That’s where a parenting plan can help define how divorced or separated parents will share responsibilities and make decisions for their child's upbringing. 


By providing a clear framework on topics such as visitation schedules, decision-making authority, financial obligations and reimbursement policies, and school activities, parenting plans are a powerful tool that ensures a child’s best interests are prioritized. A well-drafted parenting plan can also minimize the potential for conflict between a divorced couple by including guidelines on dispute resolution and communication guidelines.


Helpful Tips for Navigating Custody and School Schedules During a Divorce


Communication is Key:

  • Respectful communication with your ex-partner is crucial. Discuss your work schedules, desired parenting time, and your child's needs, if it is safe for your circumstances. Stick to the facts and focus on the children, if communication is strained.

  • Develop a shared calendar: Utilize online tools or a physical calendar to track custody exchanges, school events, and extracurricular activities. This helps ensure both parents are on the same page and avoids confusion.


Working with the School:

  • Inform the school of your custody arrangement. Provide the school with both parents' contact information and a copy of your custody agreement or parenting plan.

  • Consider attending school events together to show support for your child; be sure to only attend if you can mutually avoid conflict.


The Importance of Parenting Plans in King County and Snohomish County


Parenting Plans can Help Create a Routine:

  • Parenting plans can outline decision-making authority, set clear expectations for visitation, and provide clarity around vacations and holidays. 

  • Develop consistent expectations for behavior and routines at both homes. Respect the other parent’s parenting decision without criticism in front of the children. Insulate children from parenting disagreements to provide stability during a period of change.

  • Discuss homework policies and how technology can appropriately be used by the child. Incorporate these decisions into your parenting plan to ensure the child stays consistent with their coursework throughout the school year. 

  • Plan for transitions: Pack backpacks and prepare clothes the night before to minimize morning stress. The courts often expect that both parents will have essentials (such as pajamas and toiletries) for a child in each home, and a parenting plan can further elaborate on what the child should have in both homes, including the non-custodial parent’s home. 


Remember, there's never a "one-size-fits-all" solution when it comes to separation or divorce, especially when children are involved. Each custody agreement or parenting plan should be customized to the unique circumstances of your family and your child’s needs. Often, it is necessary to modify your parenting plan as a child’s development, routine, and interests change over time. 


View Ridge Family Law and Estate Planning is here to help. We offer compassionate and experienced legal guidance to navigate parenting plans, parenting plan modifications, custody agreements, child support, and other family law matters. Contact us today to schedule a consultation.

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