Navigating the Summer Rhythm: Clarity in Co-Parenting

As the weather warms and summer schedules shift, families often anticipate longer days and new adventures. For parents navigating life after separation or divorce, the summer transition brings unique opportunities and, sometimes, challenges in co-parenting.

Researchers at the University of Washington concluded that there is a biannual pattern for divorce with peaks following winter and summer holidays after reviewing 14 years of divorce data in Washington State. If planning your summer involves legal considerations related to your parenting plan, you are far from alone.

Proactive Co-Parenting Steps for a Smooth Summer

A well-defined parenting plan provides clarity, but summer often requires extra attention to detail and strategic communication. Proactive steps are crucial for ensuring stability and predictability for your children during this transition.

• Review Your Parenting Plan: Go over your existing court-ordered parenting plan well in advance of summer. Pay close attention to clauses about residential time during school breaks, holidays, and vacation schedules. Note any specific requirements for notification about travel.

• Strategic Communication: Communicate clearly and strategically with your co-parent about summer schedules, travel plans, and any necessary adjustments. This is especially important if navigating a high-conflict co-parenting relationship. Aim for clear and direct communication.

• Share Schedules Early: Exchange proposed summer schedules early to allow time for discussion and agreement. Putting agreed-upon plans in writing can prevent future misunderstandings.

• Transportation and Logistics: Confirm details about pickups, drop-offs, and transportation for activities or travel.

• Emergency Contacts and Information: Ensure both parents have up-to-date contact information for the children, doctors, and any summer program providers.

  
  

Addressing Potential Issues

Despite best efforts, disagreements can arise. Referencing your parenting plan and attempting clear communication are the first steps. If disputes cannot be resolved directly, mediation or seeking legal guidance may be necessary, depending on the terms of your parenting plan.

Summer should be a time for children to enjoy a different pace. By proactively addressing potential co-parenting challenges with clarity and strategic planning, you can help ensure a smoother, more predictable summer for everyone.

If you need assistance understanding or navigating your parenting plan during the summer months, contact our team at View Ridge Law. We are here to support you in ensuring your children's best interests are at the heart of every decision.