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Writer's pictureMackenzie Sorich

Navigating the Caretaking Sandwich: A Legal Perspective on Planning for the Future

Updated: Dec 28, 2023



As we approach the new year, a time of reflection and connection with loved ones, many parents find themselves caught in what is commonly referred to as the caretaking sandwich. This unique position involves simultaneously caring for their minor children while also recognizing the impending responsibility of providing support for aging parents. As legal professionals, we understand the importance of open communication and planning, especially during the holidays. This season provides a valuable opportunity for face-to-face conversations about how your parents envision their aging process. By addressing crucial questions, such as their readiness to raise grandchildren in times of crisis or their preferences for aging in place versus moving to a senior community, families can lay the groundwork for a more secure future.


Reflecting on the Year


The end of the year is an ideal time to reflect on the challenges and triumphs of the past months. The caretaking sandwich often highlights the need for comprehensive estate planning, ensuring that both children and aging parents are taken care of in the long run. By dedicating time during the holidays to discuss these matters, families can make informed decisions and mitigate potential conflicts down the road.


Planning for the Future


Legal considerations play a crucial role in planning for the future, especially when multiple generations are involved. Here are some key areas for families to focus on:


Estate Planning:

  • Work with clients to create, review, and update their wills, trusts, and other estate planning documents.

  • Discuss the appointment of guardians for minor children and healthcare proxies for aging parents.

Power of Attorney and Healthcare Directives:

  • Ensure that parents have designated individuals with power of attorney for financial and healthcare decisions.

  • Discuss end-of-life preferences and create advance healthcare directives.


Grandparent Rights and Responsibilities:

  • Open a dialogue about the potential role of grandparents in raising grandchildren during emergencies.


The holidays serve as a poignant reminder of the importance of family and the responsibilities that come with different life stages. By initiating thoughtful conversations about aging, healthcare, and family dynamics, families can lay the foundation for a more secure and harmonious future. Take some time to reflect on the year and plan for the future, so that your family can have peace of mind and security for generations to come.


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